Click on the link to the article below. Great quote from it: “The next time that your child asks to skip chores to do homework, resist the urge to let him or her off the hook, says psychologist Madeline Levine, author of “Teach Your Children Well.” Being slack about chores […]
Is your satnav harming your brain? Scientists warn over-use of modern technology may be linked to memory loss and depression in later life | Daily Mail Online.
READ this article! Its SHORT! Will take 2 minutes, 3 tops! This is the BEST article I have read on this topic so far. Lets stop fooling ourselves people! “Society pays a price when we teach men to be turned on by women in pain.” Women digging S&M is a […]
Great advice for parents! Quick read below! 11 Things Empty Nesters Want Parents Of Little Kids To Know | Shelley Emling. One of my beliefs about kids is that they are more tuned in than what we give them credit for. They probably hear and understand more than we would like to […]
This is a great, quick little article that highlights some benifits of approaching your spouse as your best friend. I believe that the happiest marriages are those in which the spouses see each other as best friends and equals. Here is a little excerpt from the article: “Intriguingly, marital happiness […]
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How bad is booze anyway? 6 crazy facts about drinking – CNN.com.
Click on the link below… http://www.faithit.com/an-open-letter-to-the-dad-looking-at-porn/#.VI_AD8miK_U.facebook We have to admit to ourselves that the lie “I’m not hurting anyone by looking at porn,” couldn’t be further from the truth.
Even I still get this one wrong sometimes. But guys,.. trust me, its worth learning. It doesn’t have to make sense to us. Its just safer for everyone if we follow this guys lead ; ) Call me with any questions ; ) Take care! – Jake
Everyone has had a negative self belief or a nagging voice haunt them at least once in their life. Negative thoughts about one’s appearance, competence, or their value can interfere with a persons confidence and keep them from becoming the most self actualized, creative, and happy person they can be. […]
Hey Everyone! I rock at therapy, but did you know I rock pumpkins too? (Click on the pictures for a crisper image). Enjoy!! – Jake Voelker MA, LMFT 2008: Palin Pumpkin 2009: Brett Favre 2010: Buddy Christ (From the movie Dogma) 2011: […]
BAM! I wholeheartedly endorse everything in this article!!: Being a Stay-at-Home Parent is a Luxury — For Your Spouse I guess I have pretty strong feelings about societies lack of respect for Stay-at-Home parents these days. To those who think staying at home all day with the kids is easy, […]
Check it out. Good stuff in the article below! 10 ways you are being unfaithful to your spouse — and you don’t even know it. Happy Friday! – Jake
Discovering a pornography addiction can be one of the biggest challenges for a marriage or relationship. Porn not only effects the brain and beliefs of the user, but also the identity, and feelings of trust and safety of the partner. There is much literature out there for the addict or […]
Don’t be fooled by me. Don’t be fooled by the face I wear that the water’s calm and I’m in command for I wear a mask, a thousand masks, masks that I’m afraid to take off, and none of them is me.Pretending is an art that’s second nature with me, […]
Here is a quick and simple article about what going to therapy is and isn’t, and why we should view going as a strength, not a weakness. My favorite part: “Let’s clarify a few things. Most people who initiate counseling do not have a serious mental illness. They have serious […]
Hey Everyone! Hope you’ve all been enjoying the summer! It has been an eventful one both personally and professionally this year! My wife and I were fortunate enough to do a road trip all throughout the New England states this year which included a stop in Philadelphia on […]
Check out this quick, excellent video about what Sue Johnson, a titan in her field, has to say about sex. A Therapist Explains Why You Need Sex It’s Not What You Think!.
Awesome Quotes: 20 Things a mother should tell her son..
Watching porn = small brain. Either because 1. It shrinks it or 2. Watching porn is characteristic of guys with small brains. More strikingly, it reduces your ability to feel rewards, ie. Imagine if having sex with a real person didn’t excite you at all, that would suck. Dont prove […]
The Genius and Applications of EMDR Since starting to use EMDR therapy, I have seen clients make more progress in one session than they might typically make in months. Memories and beliefs that have haunted them for years are positively resolved in days. If I were you reading this article, […]
Hi Everybody! Hope you are all enjoying your Sunday, and wishing a happy Mothers Day to all the mothers and mothers-to-be out there! In these last few weeks, I have been using EMDR therapy more and more with several clients. In many cases, I have been shocked at just how […]
Well, I am back from Texas and am PUMPED to start utilizing EMDR!! It is truly AMAZING that this technique has done for thousands of clients, starting in the 1980s! It is empirically validated and even endorsed by the VA as a technique that is proven to resolve PTSD in […]
You know what I think is one of the biggest, most destructive lies that has ruined the modern man? Pornography, for sure could top this list, and indeed I detest the industry, and have written about its effects on man before. Today though, I’m thinking about ”macho-ism”, how men feel they […]