11 Things Empty Nesters Want Parents Of Little Kids To Know | Shelley Emling

Great advice for parents! Quick read below! 11 Things Empty Nesters Want Parents Of Little Kids To Know | Shelley Emling. One of my beliefs about kids is that they are more tuned in than what we give them credit for. They probably hear and understand more than we would like to […]

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Even I still get this one wrong sometimes. But guys,.. trust me, its worth learning. It doesn’t have to make sense to us. Its just safer for everyone if we follow this guys lead ; )     Call me with any questions ; ) Take care! – Jake

7 Ways EMDR Can Improve Your Life, Now!

Everyone has had a negative self belief or a nagging voice haunt them at least once in their life. Negative thoughts about one’s appearance, competence, or their value can interfere with a persons confidence and keep them from becoming the most self actualized, creative, and happy person they can be. […]


  Hey Everyone! I rock at therapy, but did you know I rock pumpkins too? (Click on the pictures for a crisper image). Enjoy!! – Jake Voelker MA, LMFT   2008: Palin Pumpkin     2009: Brett Favre     2010: Buddy Christ (From the movie Dogma)     2011: […]

Porn May Be Bad for Your Brain, Study Suggests | TIME

Watching porn = small brain. Either because 1. It shrinks it or 2. Watching porn is characteristic of guys with small brains. More strikingly, it reduces your ability to feel rewards, ie. Imagine if having sex with a real person didn’t excite you at all, that would suck. Dont prove […]

What is EMDR??

The Genius and Applications of EMDR Since starting to use EMDR therapy, I have seen clients make more progress in one session than they might typically make in months. Memories and beliefs that have haunted them for years are positively resolved in days. If I were you reading this article, […]

Rapid Changes with EMDR Therapy

Hi Everybody! Hope you are all enjoying your Sunday, and wishing a happy Mothers Day to all the mothers and mothers-to-be out there! In these last few weeks, I have been using EMDR therapy more and more with several clients. In many cases, I have been shocked at just how […]

Excited about EMDR!!

Well, I am back from Texas and am PUMPED to start utilizing EMDR!! It is truly AMAZING that this technique has done for thousands of clients, starting in the 1980s! It is empirically validated and even endorsed by the VA as a technique that is proven to resolve PTSD in […]